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Hey guys,
Welcome to our blog, here’s the place to post your questions to our PUA experts! So let us know what your burning question is, the name of the PUA that you’d like it addressed too and we’ll do the rest! The most popular questions will be the ones that get asked.
Confirmed British Master PUAs that want to hear your questions (in no particular order):
AFC Adam London (Just named No 2 PUA IN THE WORLD on Thundercat’s list!)
Beckster (Legend of the London community for the last few years)
Icedragon (Head of the Scottish Lair and Scotland’s No 1 PUA)
Craze (Expert at seducing Strippers and Celebrities)
Discovery (Venusian Arts UK Head Instructor)
Ryanimal and Libertine, North England’s finest 
Harlequin (CEL top guy and now running with Jonny Soporno, Steve P and Zan Perrion)
Paladin (of the infamous “Project Rockstar”, now coaching)
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Peace and Best of British luck to you
Enigma
Is it possible to deal with one subject per teleseminar to maintain focus eg starting with approaching then inner game, then conversation, then kino and escalation? As otherwise the teleseminar will be all over the place and we end up more confused then we started.
I was just curious if you guys could talk about tactics for the wheelchair bound folks, I’m always looking to incorporate new things into my game.
Yeah I agree with the statement above. However if they are doing the seminars per for mPUA this could be pretty tricky. It could therefore be better for answers to be divided into sections, so students can then look up parts that are relevant to them. Each mPUA can then have their seminar or whatever divided up. At the end of the day though im just glad to hear from PUA’s
Spark.
Question for Adam - what are your best tips for short setting when you are trying to build quick social proof in a high end club. Can we have some examples of nifty short sets you have used?
Ok two areas:
Approach
actions to take initially after the approach (A2 of the mystery method)
That kind of area for me see, after that i could do anything (I know from past experience I have balls its just AA is a big spooker and sticking point for me)!
To AFC Adam,
I’m interested to know what beliefs you have which have helped make you successful. Do you go out a particular mindset that helps you get results?
Hey guys.
I have a few questions you could maybe ask the mPua’s
1) Were you always terrible with girls?
2) Why do you think your individual style works? How did you develop it?
3) Tips for newbies, and tips for more experienced guys who are getting results but not consistently.
4) Talk about a funny failure you’ve had, and how you resolved it, if at all. (theres a belief in the community that mPuas NEVER fail)
Hey.
I have pretty good game on the whole, a good inner game and a good understanding of how this aspect of social dynamics work.
I’ve recently found a great girl and I’ve begun a relationship with her. I’d just like to know your thoughts on how you adjust yourself to keep a relationship exciting and maintain attraction, techniques you’ve implamented and the way you change your behavious as a lot of game seems to be quite intensified to spark that initial attraction, to me, the initial attraction is just a starting point and I often feel that not enough attention is payed to this area of game, the majority of teachings just seem to be the initial meeting and first date.
I think I’m doing a good job, but I just wanted your perspective on how you deal with the evolution of a relationship, what you do once you have been out a few times with this girl and the progression from there.
I look forward to hearing back.
X
Another question!
I have a couple of friends who are studying a little game, but im not actually sure how into it they are. How can I introduce them further into Game or bring the topic up with them without it seeming awkward?
Spark.
I have 2 big questions I would love to be answered, in fact reading the comments above I think a Couple of peeps have touched on them already but here goes:
1) I can’t seem to find any material for intermediate pua‘s? I really want to hear directly from the gurus discussing their from good to great experience, the highs the lows, the sticking points, successes and failures. Too many times I read “I was terrible with girls but now I awesome” without really talking about the bit in between.
2) I’d also love a UK specific e-book? I know the fundamentals are the same regardless of where you are from. It seems the majority of the people who are issuing resources are American and catering for a American audience. It would be refreshing if the best in the UK got together and put something down.
Hey there,
My Question is:
If you had to choose between true happiness with women, and excellence. But at the cost of never truly being friends with them and always just being a sexual entity. Or mediocre success and having some great female friends. What would you choose?
Also Joss or Cenk? (Inside joke!)
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From Tommy
I know its late, but I have another question!
Ive been dipping in and out of Game for years now never really taking off! Last year it was suggested to me by some randomer
that I should take ‘baby steps’. I tried doing this a little but I was always like oh no what do I do now? Would you reccomend using “canned openers” in order to perfect this bit of my Game and think forget what happens next before I go rushing in and over do myself? Or do you think I should learn as much as I can before going into the field?
Spark.
Questions for Adam:
Some tips on what to say after you have done the small talk. I find the approach is ok. Then maybe a compliment or statement, finally we exchange names and it dies out (at a high point as well). What would you suggest for this?
Also, what kind of openers hook groups of women? I know the general priciple is too be more energy and entertaining than what they were previously doing but could you elaborate on this. Thanks Adam.
ADAM LYONS QUESTION
hi adam on youtube you have talked about breaking rapport. can you say a bit more on this subject. what are your best examples? you mentioned breaking rapport then qualifying afterwards. it would be cool to know about these facts!
cheers
luke
Hello, this is a question for Adam or anyone else that can help actually.
I spend a lot of weekends going to underground dance clubs and I enjoy them and don’t want to give them up but find it much more difficult to pick up girls compared to say a normal bar seeing as you don’t have much of a chance to talk to girls as the music is so loud, everyone is dancing and into the music and the girls don’t really expect you to come on to them.
I’m presuming you have to use a lot of non verbal communication , but can you be more specific, or have any tips?
Also Id like to say thanks as well to AFC Adam, you have helped me immensely, I hope you and Amanda have the nicest Mexican food as soon as possible.
Jimbo
bueno mi pregunta es cual seria la estructura de un buen sargeo con un ejemplo de la conversacion y del lenguaje corporal tambien que es mejor la seduccion natural o enlatados y por ultimo aveces es buno demostrar debilidades
yahoo babel fish translation: good my question is the what serious structure of a good sargeo with an example of the conversation and the corporal language also that is better the natural seduction or canning and finally you accustom is buno to demonstrate weaknesses
whats the difference between a good pua and a great pua?(this is not a joke!)
thought i would fire another question, I can open well but seem to stuggle to get real attraction is there any tips you guys can offer?
thought i would fire another question, I can open well but seem to stuggle to get real attraction is there any tips you guys can offer?
I am entering the competiton..so just have this simple question to ask…
Theres so much info out there with different Gurus claiming to have cracked the Game..which Guru(s) /methods are the best to start reading when starting out?
Thanks
Naz
Adam,
I couldn’t possibly tell you I deserve training more than other people, as we all have similar stories of either being uncomfortable interacting women since the dawn of our existence, or we’re decent at at it and something happens that makes us afraid. Mine would be the latter. What I can say, is that wile my story may not be wholly unique, I don’t just do this for myself. This is a process of self improvement that I am slowly passing on to friends and family who need it. And if later down the line I can help another PUA in a wheelchair, or not, by sharing my experiences, then it will have been worth it.
Sincerely,
Captain Gimpy
Just some feedback for you guys who organised this.
I really enjoyed it (and not just because you asked my questions LOL) it demonstrated how much Adam loves this subject and his desire to get information out to people for free. Nice to see in a increasingly mercenary world.
My connection did drop off for about 3 mins at around the half way stage. Dunno if that was your or my end though.
I think Captain Gimpys question was by far the most interesting, its something I’ve never even considered.
Looking forward to the next one now.
When is the next one was in tomorrow or did I dream that?
Yep Spark at 7pm here…
EVENT: PUA Experts - IceDragon
DATE & TIME: Wednesday, January 21st at 7:00pm GMT/UTC
FORMAT: Simulcast! (Attend via Phone or Webcast — it’s your choice)
TO ATTEND THIS EVENT, CLICK THIS LINK NOW…
http://instantTeleseminar.com/?eventid=5774988
You should have got an email entitled “fire and ice”
I have a question for Discovery,
Do you think that any of the parts or sections of the Mystery Method need changing for use in the U.K. If so which parts and what into? Hope that last bit makes sense I had a bit of trouble wording it
Question for Discovery
Given that so many people seem to get into this community in order to get their one-itis, only to find out that the community does not offer help in this regard, what quality do you think it is in a few of these people or in the community that keeps them in the community?
Hey this is another “Game for Gimpy” question. A bit more specific though, for Discovery. MM teaches the use of body rocking as a form of FTC when opening a set, but being in a wheelchair presents a difficulty, and while verbal FTCs are fine, w/o the body language to back it up, it looks too fake and may lead to seeming too eager regardless. The second half of this sticking point for me is locking into a set in a situation like a park bench or outdoor table with fixed chairs such as those found on college campuses, in this situation it’s always a bit too obvious that I’m gaming a set due to my chair being on the outside. Any suggestions?
Once you get good at pickup, there are very few resources on “Service after the sale” or how to maintain a relationship when you found a really good, high esteemed woman. What resources do you guys have for this. I know there’s David Shade for the sexual service after the sale, but what is out there for maintaining long term with a woman that you’ve gamed and want to stay with?
Lol, the seminar cut out before you announced the winners of the competition, when will we find out?
Hey guys, thanks fir the talk advice. For reasons too difficult to explain, I prefer to phone, but called the number given…no connection possible. Please look into this, Dee
Hey guys, thanks fir the talk advice. For reasons too difficult to explain, I prefer to phone, but called the number given…no connection possible. Please look into this, Dee
Hey guys, thanks fir the talk advice. For reasons too difficult to explain, I prefer to phone, but called the number given…no connection possible. Please look into this, Dee
Hey guys, thanks fir the talk advice. For reasons too difficult to explain, I prefer to phone, but called the number given…no connection possible. Please look into this, Dee
Hey guys, thanks fir the talk advice. For reasons too difficult to explain, I prefer to phone, but called the number given…no connection possible. Please look into this, Dee
For reasons too difficult to explain, I prefer to call. Number did not connect on sun. (dialled twice) Please look into it. Thanks for the good work.
Guys real solid advise tonight, the stuff on approach anxiety was especially useful, thank’s so much! Did you record the call and if so how long will it be up, cos I missed some of it.
What happened at the end there?
Jimbo
Cheers James, the call was recorded untill the cut out point, even though we didn’t realise it had cut out and no one could hear us
I’m going to re-record the end, Jest will edit the two together, then we’ll make it available for download
What happened? Erm - flying space monkeys must have sabotaged it mate. There’s no other possible explanation.
Peace
Enigma
I don’t know if I’ll make the call… I’ll try to record while I’m gone, but I have had mixed success with that. Anyhow, a question I get often is, how can you tell if it’s just a bitch shield or if her protests are genuine? I’d love to hear your perspective on this.
Hay Craze,
I was just wondering abour celebrities and strippers etc and why you decided to game them particularly? Also is this an area of Game you’ve always been working towards or is it an area that you branched into after you achieved the mPUA status? If your aiming to achieve this in the long run how should you start of?
Cheers,
Spark.
Due to very recent developments I have a couple more questions:
I have been communicating with a few other Aspiring Pick Up Artists? Like my self and I just recieved an invite to meet on Friday to which I promptly replied yes before thinking too much! Now I was just wondering whats the best way to approach this and what kind of things should I say? I guess what im trying to say is should I approach these guys like new friends or kind of like work buddies? As in would a good first question be hay how are you? Or more game based such as the one Sinn uses in the game at the bootcamp of “whats your score?”
Again many thanks,
Spark.
My question is addressed at Craze although it doesn’t really matter i’m sure you all have a good idea. I have been wondering whether or not interrupting while other people are speaking is somthing thats going to build attraction. On the one hand, I personally hate being interupted, most people like talking better than listening as well, so i’m sure people don’t like being interrupted. However i’ve also noticed that most guys who are natural alpha males interrupt all the time, making it A extremly difficult to Amog them back but these guys always have a lot of success with woman as being the guy that interrupts and speaks whenever displays confidence and just alhpaness. So I would like to know your thoughts on whether to wait for your turn to speak or be interupting all the time. I was also thinking that perhaps interrupting when friends/other people are speaking but not interupt when the target is speaking.
Cheers,
MJ
I have a question for CT and Piskin (hope I spelt that right)!
When out sarging ill start off nicely in the zone; wanting to approach and this will continue for say 2 hours then its as if something has shifted and I just cant be bothered anymore! Do you know methods I can use to keep this mind state going? Also are there anyways to avoid loosing it in the first place?
Cheers,
Spark.
I have a cheeky question for all you guys!
Any seminars/bootcamos going to happen here that any of you guys are doing?
If so me and my new found wing, Jericho are well interested/in
Keep up the good work and I bought the book; its a big pocket size lol!
Spark.
hey guys,
it’s good to hear you on the Internet again and I hope all is going well. The question I have to ask might cause you to think that I’m a bit mental, but here goes… a couple weeks back, a friend and I were having lunch when I spotted a girl who was having lunch with her mother. She kept staring at me, so we talked for a bit then I ended up getting her numb. She later told me she was a stripper. A couple weeks after that, I ended up making out with a girl who works as a club promoter. Now my question is, how do I get the “regular” girls, I’ve had a fair amount of success with what most people would call nines and tens out in the field, but lately I’ve been having problems getting the girls I meet every day, on campus, at bookstores, and so forth. People have told me that I come off as cocky, but I’m really fun to be around. Could it be that I’m overdoing the cocky? If so, it’s going to be an issue because it comes naturally to me, and I don’t really mean to do it I’d love to hear some perspective on this. Thanks
I am based in the North West. Are there any wings out there who want to hook up?
Gents,
Couple questions for the Master PUAs out there! These might have been asked before, but I can only scroll down a blog for so long! haha!
So, Although everyone here wants to have more and/or better success with women, I’m sure that none of us are completly heartless and we all want to avoid hurting women wherever possible. This brings me to the first question…
I approached this HB9 the other day, used this opener
Me (PAF) = hey, my mate over there bet me I wouldn’t go up to the Prettiest lady in the room and start talking to her…
HB9 = *smiles* *eye contact*
PAF = So in your opinion, who do you rank as the prettiest lady here?
She lapped it up! got chatting, used a few light negs, I got a number (nice!) and she added me on facebook the next day.
We were then chatting online and she started opening up and telling me about how she’s got zero confidence around men, and how she normally runs from blokes who approach her.
This got me thinking,
1) Negs for women with low self confidence. Obviously this isn’t going to work the same as your negging them about something they don’t value anyway. So what would you guys do? I tried some very subtle, light negging about this and that, but she goes quiet. I just don’t want to give her any issues (except for me! haha!)
2) Boyfriend Destroyers - I kinda struggle with these! Anyone got any examples that have worked?
Cheers guys! Sorry for waffling like that! haha!
PunkAsPhuk